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'Brothers & Sisters' recap: Another explosive family dinner

Oct 6, 2008, 12:37 PM | by Michael Slezak

Categories: 'Brothers & Sisters', About Last Night, Television

Brothersandsisters_l "You're adults! Get a filter!" With those five words, Robert McCallister (Rob Lowe) summed up exactly the life plan that the Walker 6 -- Nora and her children Sarah, Kitty, Tommy, Kevin, and Justin -- ought to be discussing with the therapists I'm sure each of them visit every week, but who we never get to see on screen. (Side note: All in favor of a shrink-themed episode say "Aye!")

Then again, if these nosy, noisy, wine-soaked adults ever did learn to control their tongues, and their impulses, Brothers & Sisters would immediately cease to be the predictably soapy drama that's come to represent the perfect nightcap to my weekends. Which doesn't mean I didn't love Robert's stern reprimand in last night's ep (directed by ER vet Laura Innes), or the way he kept at it when Nora & Co. took offense to it, saying they couldn't pretend they weren't angry with Kitty for writing an accidental (and family-secret-spilling) book about the life of a campaign staffer/political wife. "It's not pretending. It's being considerate!" Robert raged, and rightfully so.

Sure, Kitty was daft for inviting her crazy clan to dinner with the adoption-agency rep (and serving vino to boot) but their borderline sabotage of her dream of having kids seemed like an exorbitant punishment for the crime committed, even among the self-centered Walker clan. Something about Lowe's performance as the polished Senator has always struck me as a little cold, but I did like his exasperated interplay with Kitty when she dropped the bombshell about her book on him right before the home inspection. And sure, Nora might as well have fixed a giant canned ham for dinner, but her initial response upon reading the (eventually coffee- and chicken-stained) manuscript -- a curious "huh?" followed by an indignant "huh!" -- was pretty hilarious.

Of course, right at the point B&S looked like it was about to devolve into caricature last night, the writers went and gave us that magnificent reconciliation scene between Kitty and Nora. Indeed, Sally Field's monologue about the sometimes thankless role of motherhood, about her quest for respect and admiration from her children, about her struggle to be recognized as a smart and talented person and not just a meal maker and child bearer, rang absolutely beautiful and true. Nora's final remark about Kitty's dedication -- "You're right. It doesn't seem so bad in context." -- played as a larger depiction of all the Walkers' crazy behavior during the episode.

One area where context is very necessary is the nervous romance playing out between Justin and Rebecca, who just a few episodes ago were supposed to be linked among those titular Brothers & Sisters. Now, suddenly, we're having to accept the sight of them making out on a couch while ignoring the (low budget?) action movie playing a few feet away from them. I was glad to see Justin freak out a little about the idea of having sex with the Artist Formerly Known as His Half-Sister, but enjoyed even more the way Sarah casually spilled the beans to Tommy ("He's talking massage oils!"). Saddling Rebecca with a $2 million trust fund -- and watching her turn over the "dirty money" to Nora -- certainly gave Emily VanCamp more to do this episode (even if the camera crew's sudden and obsessive interest in her heaving bosom makes me a little skittish).

I don't begrudge Rebecca her feelings: This season, Patricia Wettig's Holly Harper has evolved as an even more enigmatic, and possibly more deceptive, presence than ever. She's a wily (and fun-to-watch) manipulator, whether bringing coffee and donuts to milk info from (suddenly off-the-radar) Saul, or using cocktails and flirtatious body language to try and get ahead of the Walkers in the quest to find Ryan. Here's hoping Holly continues to prove a worthy adversary: Given the Walker clan's penchant to forgive one another before the wine glasses even hit the dishwasher, this show needs a vital villain more than ever.

What did you think of this week's show? Were you surprised to see Kitty and Robert get agency approval by the end of the hour? Did any of you tear up during Nora's monologue? And what's your take on Holly: Total she-beast, misunderstood mama, or somewhere in the middle?


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rjz Thu, Oct 9, 2008 at 01:43 PM EST

Robert had the right...I like what he said. I like Justin & Rebecca together...like the idea of nerviousness on both sides. Love those family times when all are together...where was Scottie? Those family scenes must be a hoot to tape.

shonuff Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 01:10 PM EST

i still don't understand how a wealthy former senator and his right-wing pundit wife can't easily score an adoption...the whole struggle is really implausible...while it wouldn't happen quickly, the path isn't nearly as difficult for a couple with the means and connections as the fictitious couple
and the whole sara-struggling-at-work-thing seems quite contrived...wasn't she this super-executive prior to working at the family business? how she isn't at least lunching or coffeeing with contacts is beyond me. in these economic times, someone with those skills and connections would at least be feeling out the marketplace

Sarah Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 10:43 AM EST

I also thought that Tommy's wife was pregnant. Also, why would Holly have to sweet talk anyone into finding Ryan?!?! Has she not heard of Google or Facebook?!?!

Noneya Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 12:44 AM EST

wow a family gathering that ends in fighting and disaster, what an original ep. this show has become a complete waste of an hour.

Walker Fan Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 09:25 PM EST

maybe it's just me but I think that Julia, Tommy's wife is pregant..she was queasy twice in the episode, did Tommy's sperm perk up or is it from the fling in Arizona

Katie Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 08:53 PM EST

Huh? This show had a new episode on? Goes to show how little TV I've been watching these days. I like B&S, and would have watched if I knew it was on.

ellya Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 06:11 PM EST

robert totally had the right to yell at the people who just made a horrible impression on the woman who was determining the future of his family. (though i did think it was weird his kids weren't invited.)

as for ryan--he already HAS a father, as stated in kevin's flashback. i'm thinking he doesn't know anything about another man, or doesn't care, considering his late mother's husband his father. i'm thinking the walkers are about to destroy his life. (but if it gets scott porter on the show, like the rumors have it, i don't really care. three cheers for scott porter!)

Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 04:31 PM EST

although they are all crazy, it's tough to say that anyone can't relate to this family in some way. i love that it's on sunday too. my issue: that kitty has been saying over and over that just because robert's a senator that it doesn't mean they'll get a baby. judging by the length of their marriage and the dinner they had with the agency lady, i wouldn't think they would have agency approval...

Beret Erway Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 01:31 PM EST

Nora did NOT sabotage the dinner in spite--she was trying to keep the adoption agency woman from eating the over-spicy food and scorching her mouth. Nora had to decide "worse case scenario" was worst.

Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 12:07 PM EST

I hated Robert's speech. I can't believe Kitty was OK with it. I thought it was self-righteous and annoying. What does he know about this family? He's been there for a few months, and he thinks he can come in and tell them they're wrong? But, what I hated more was that the writers thought this family of Walkers would let him talk to them like that. I thought Kitty was going to lay into him later in the episode, but she thanked him? Really? He just yelled at your family!

Q Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 11:35 AM EST

To Clare, I'm with you. Justin and Rebecca do not bother me as a couple at all. They were "siblings" for about a year and strangers for 20+years. It would be weird if they were still considered siblings on the show and proceeded to have a romantic relationship anyway. That would be gross!

Julie Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 10:12 AM EST

Where's the love for Saul? I thought the way he saw through Holly and called her out was tremendous!

jaime Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 09:03 AM EST

They should publish that book...i would love to read it! It seems so interesting. . .i love the walkers!

Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 08:38 AM EST

A different perspective on politics.

http://politicsadifferentperspective.blogspot.com

jaime Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 07:40 AM EST

Still waiting for a TVwatch instead of Popwatch! Anywho i cried twice during the ep. and omg i love Rob Lowes speach...seriously perfect and so true. I love this family!

Muddpuddin Tue, Oct 7, 2008 at 01:16 AM EST

As always I love this show...didn't anyone else see that even though Nora was furious at Kitty she still tried to save the evening by dumping the water on the Adoption Lady she had taken a bite of the chicken and in no way wanted the Lady to eat it...at least that is the way i saw it...Nora so reminds me of my own mother...lol.

Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 11:37 PM EST

This was easily one of the worst episodes the show has ever produced. Poorly written, contrived, and annoying. Negative stars.

Ugly Jenny Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 11:05 PM EST

I really don't mind the Rebecca/Justin relationship. People out there view as creepy because she was for the most part last season she was thought to be the long lost half sister, but as soon as the writers entertained the idea of an attraction between her and Justin, I immediately knew that she really wasn't a Walker. I like these two together, and it's nice to see that Justin truly cares for her and is not just some other notch on the bedpost. I was watching the episode with my mother and we both teared up when Norah gave her speech to Kitty. I can already see that clip being used when Sally Fields gets her Emmy nomination next year!
P.S. It's my secret desire to get drunk with Sarah, Kitty, and Kevin!

lvnvrcd Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 10:42 PM EST

I LOVE THIS SHOW!!! My wife and I have four children and seven grandchildren. At my wife's family birthday party the other night, we had some very lively discussions relating to politics and other topics and things got rather heated and loud at times. I couldn't help but think of the Walkers and it put a smile on my face. No matter what, we still love each other (even though we don't always agree on everything).

wyndycty Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 10:33 PM EST

Loved the show! Holly is turning out to be a bigger B*tch than she already was! Can't wait to see how this whole Ryan Lafferty thing plays out.

mims Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 10:30 PM EST

I really like this show. I can depend on quality when watching it and there are some hilarious moments..i did however think it was over the top for them to sabotoge the dinner w/ the adoption lady there...i don't care how upset or betrayed i feel by my bro or sis I play nice while we have company or something important is going down..but the second we are alone i start throwing punches..well not really but u get the point....i did like rob lowes speak, it was totally justified...i'll always think of him as sam seaborn though..lol

Brandon Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 09:34 PM EST

I love this show!!!!! I think that Nora (Sally Field) deserved the Emmy this year... even though she did win last year. Her performance is heartbreaking and amzing at times. I love each character and each one's story lines and how they eventually intermingle throughout the season. I love Patricia Wetting's character (Holly). She is so egnimatic and powerful and I hope she stays around for a long time. I cannot wait to see who Ryan is and how he mixes into the whole storyline and I think Justin and Rebecca are so great together!!

woop Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 08:50 PM EST

i totally teared during norah's speech (damn you, sally fields her acting chops might make her tear up during a boniva commercial!) and i think holly is a she-beast but yes she makes the show interesting. kitty bores me to death.

Jan.... Marcia. Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 06:49 PM EST

The best part of this show (other than the timeslot) is how interchangeable the characters are and what great story lines come out of it. I love Kitty and Kevin! Those two should road trip - he lives for her lifestyle. I also think they do a decent job of what its like for Sarah and Justin since they are at such different places in their lives.

Heather Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 06:10 PM EST

I never set out to enjoy this show, but now I love it, and make a point to catch it every week! The Walker dinner scenes are the best. And sure, Robert's speech was a little mean, but he has sat through so many arguments he deserved to speak his mind, and stand up for Kitty.

Sandy Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 05:43 PM EST

No no and no. Robert really annoyed me last night ! Who the heck does he think he is ? He hadn't even read what his wife had written about the others and he was yelling at Nora for being (rightly) upset ! Even if we learned later that she hadn't read everything completely, I would have reacted just like her ! Telling the whole world that your mother went to prison ? that's a big NO ! I fully understand Nora's reaction !

I wouldn't even show up to that dinner. That was not nice coming from Kitty (and also all the things she said about the others).

And by the way, if they were only supposed to be notes and not pages from a book, how come she had written something at the beginning dedicating the book to her mom ?

Pfff, I really have enough of Robert and Kitty (yeah yeah they're so perfect) ! Gimme more Sarah and Holly and Nora !! These are real and interesting characters (with FLAWS) !

carol Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 05:27 PM EST

i love this show. I crack right up watching it. If you have never been around big families you will not be able to relate. It's insanity in real life and on tv.

Jessicar Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 05:08 PM EST

I LOVED LOVED LOVED Robert's speech! It was the perfect culmination of that episode. As far as I was concerned, it could've ended right there and Kitty and Nora could've made up in the next episode.

Justin and Rebecca, I'm OK with it - I never thought they seemed comfortable in the brother-sister roles, so that felt more weird than them suddenly being boyfriend-girlfriend instead.

Holly - can't stand her character, and can't stand Patricia Wettig. If she's had a face-lift, I sure as hell can't tell.

One last thought - has Tommy's wife Julia(?) been a tad beyotchy so far this season? She was kind of nothing last season, and now she's a little bit She-zilla.

clare Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 05:01 PM EST

Am I the only one that watches Brothers&Sisters who actually likes the idea of Justin & Rebecca? Just putting it out there...

Electronwriter Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 04:25 PM EST

People seem to forget that the dinner was in Robert's house. That gives him some rights.

Lucas Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 04:20 PM EST

I cried during Nora's speech (and I'm a grown up, straight man!) because I always wonder how "homemakers" must feel in this modern world. My mom is a very successful career woman who, with my dad, himself a successful career guy, raised four PhD wielding children, normal and well-adjusted, so I respect and admire my parents and always hope all children can grow up to admire theirs, no matter what careers or roles they play in life (homemaker, or whatever).

Matt Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 04:16 PM EST

I LOVE this show...especially the interplay among Sally Field (not "Fields" -- look it up, people!) and Calista Flockhart. I didn't know if having Rob Lowe on the show would detract from the overall story of the Walker family, but he's sort of like the audience's window into the craziness. Holly Harper is evil and I love that she's the villainess, even though she just thinks she's misunderstood (aren't they always). The show really seems to use the family dinners as great periods of snappy, caustic and witty dialogue and it's something I'm always looking forward to! I'm sure this season will continue to be excellent! :)

robert Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 04:15 PM EST

loved the show and esp. loved the episode. i liked that justin was nervous about having sex with rebecca, giving the writers a way to acknowledge that it is a little creepy. they DID think they were brothers and sisters. the dinner scenes are always the best part of the episode. holly is a biatch!! Love it. where is the emmy nomination for best drama???

MAC Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 03:59 PM EST

Loved the ep. Kitty was CRAZYYY to invite her whole family and she's kidding herself if she thinks being married to a senator/former presidential candidate isn't going to HELP her in the adoption process. Also, not sure why everyone in the family always listens quietly to Robert. Why doesn't anyone tell him to SHUTUP!!! He's only been in the fam for 2 months. I'm a little sick of his speeches 2 weeks in a row. He's at a fam dinner, not on the campaign trail.

Rachel K Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 03:53 PM EST

I cried during Nora's speech because my mom has given a similar one to me before. It just felt so real and invoked some real emotion about my own life. Yay Sally Field! And yes, I can't stand Holly. I was sympathetic to her character before because she felt so human with pros and cons but lately ... she just seems vindictive and evil. I wondered all along if this was lurking inside her. She's a formidable adversary so I'm excited to see what happens next.

Barbara Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 03:47 PM EST

I loved this episode. It was B&S at it's finest. I adore Calista Flockhart in her role of Kitty and I don't understand why she hasn't yet had an Emmy nom. Rob Lowe, however, stole the show with his speech. The Walker family needed to hear it! Norah can be so mean sometimes, but it was good to see her and Kitty reconcile at the end.

Adam Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 03:34 PM EST

One of the biggest reasons I love this show is that it comes on after Desperate Housewives. It is like black and white, the actors on B&S are so much more talented, and the drama is more realistic. This was the best episode of this season, loved every minute of it! Can't wait to see what evil little Holly does next!

Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 02:25 PM EST

what's so evil about Holly wanting to find Ryan? i think i'd want to know if the 'love of my life' had not only NOT fathered my child but had another lover somewhere else who's child he had fathered. is that really so bad?

1 of 5 Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 02:07 PM EST

I am from a family with 5 kids, 3 boys 2 girls...I love this show...it is my family! I have a brother that is an attorney, one that is a very successful business man and one that marches to a different drummer. I am a business owner and my sister, the baby is always trying to prove she isn't as spoiled as we all think she is. B&S rings true to life for me! I love Robert sticking up for Kitty. Have on problem with Rebecca and Justin - last season when they still thought they were sibs, the attraction was already building, as soon as it came out she was not a Walker, I knew where it was heading. I want Holly to be devasted when Ryan's identity is discovered. It's too bad they don't have William Walker doing voice overs like Mary Alice, the insight would be awesome.

graeme Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 02:01 PM EST

Easily one of the best episodes this show has ever done. They finally put Flockhart and Field in scenes together again (when those 2 go toe-to-toe, that's when this show really soars) and even Rob Lowe was great.

M weyer Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 01:52 PM EST

Actually, one of the best bits was when Holly pressed Saul on William's other lover and Saul got in the KILLER burn that Holly now knew how Nora felt finding out about her. Nice job from Rifkin there.

And liked when Robert's giving the speech and everyone reacts to the overly spicy food and trying not to be too obvious about it.

snarky Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 01:47 PM EST

I'm with Sheila - I loved this show until Justin and Rebecca became a couple - gag! Too bad, b/c I think that Sally Fields is genius in her role, but I can't believe that someone who thought they were sibs can just turn that off so fast. yuck

Kristi Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 01:36 PM EST

This show is so awesome! I laugh and cry right along with the family members! Holly is just such a wicked person, I feel sorry for Rebecca. That trust fund should have gone to Nora..I am glad Rebecca did that. I am real anxious to see who this Ryan guy is..and what it will do to the family. And Somehow I missed that the McCallister's were approved by the agency. When did that happen?

leah Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 01:22 PM EST

I think Robert had every right to defend Kitty but I LOVED that Nora did not back down, either! They each had their own cause and they each had a valid point. I just wish someone would have stuck up for Nora, as well since Robert was insulting the whole Walker clan....I also think in-laws are family but extended family and should never shout like that at their spouses's parent, deserved or not. It's disrespectful. Still, I love that it kept going because Nora defended herself staunchly - that is real life, to me.

David Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 01:14 PM EST

I loved the reconciliation scene with Nora and Kitty last night. Sally Field continues to show what a fine actress she is on this show. I thought Robert's lecture to the Walkers was smug and unnecessary. He's a prig and not very interesting. Holly is just pure evil--she's lost her soul.

Andie Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:59 PM EST

I'm wondering how Kitty's book is so good if all she gave up were some notes. If someone else put it together, like she said at the beginning, shouldn't that person get more credit or just as much?

Snarf Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:42 PM EST

Holly is verging on becoming to Brothers & Sisters what Abey was to Knotts Landing.
Loved Kevin getting all snarky and petulent (pretty much how he was described in the book, and by other siblings in previous eps)
I didn't tear up with Nor'a monolgue but I understand how eay it is to think your only percieved one way be your family when in fact their opinion is much higher. Flockheart & Field continue to knock any scenes their together in right out of the park.

Pam Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:28 PM EST

Does Patricia Wettig really think no one noticed the face lift? She lost 15 years in one summer - it's like invasion of the wrinkle snatchers.

Joann Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:25 PM EST

In answer to QuestLove's question of when the Walker's became so self-absorbed? The answer to that is with the very first episode! It's just that the bickering was very over the top this epi.

Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:22 PM EST

Thanks for bringing back the TV Watch. I love Brother & Sisters. The Walker’s are a mess but that’s why they are so fun to watch. The make my large dysfunctional family looks normal in comparison. I love that Robert stood up for Kitty. I was surprised that no one got upset at him for yelling at Nora. But he was right and they all knew it. Rebecca and Justin don’t bother me as much as I thought they would. I think that someone needs to shoot Holly. But then again she does make a good villain.

Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:20 PM EST

first of all- please address why no more TV Watch. And secondly, holly needs to be shot.

megC Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:19 PM EST

aye aye aye to a therapy-centered episode. i absolutely loved it when they added sweets on bones and it would be interesting to see something akin to that on b&s.

QuestLove Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:17 PM EST

Where was Scotty?

And when did they all become so incredibly selfish and self-absorbed? The whole episode really turned me off.

Love Patricia Wetting's Holly, but like the show, it's all become so predictible.

MK Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:17 PM EST

Kudos to Rob Lowe on that outburst. It was easily my favorite moment of the night and possibly my favorite McAllister moment ever. Anybody notice that the binder clip on the book kept moving everytime the packet got handed off? It could reasonably been from all the clipping and unclipping while reading, but I think I'd put it back where I found it, especially if I were snooping.

Sheila Mon, Oct 6, 2008 at 12:01 PM EST

I can't be bothered with B&S anymore, I switched it off when I saw Justin and Rebecca making out, couldn't get past the yuck factor. Plus all the characters seem grating now.


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