Comments on: I wonder about Kellie Pickler’s CMA waterworks…

By: Jane

Jane — Mon, 17 May 2010 21:27:30 +0000

Kelly is playing on the sympathy of people to advance her musical career. It’s very clear that the grandparents and her father have influenced Kelly against her mom. Kelly has been chattell, there property, and they sure didn’t want Cynthia around making their father look bad, now what would the community think about the grandparents…….they sure didn’t do a good parenting job on their, son, kellys father. Face it Kelly your father is only going to be well if has a brain transplant, and your mother, I am sure, didn’t know what was happening to her. She does now Kelly and she is a well woman for it, and good for her. Open up Kelly and learn about your mothers past illness, then you will have empathy and foregive……. Not just say it so the public will like you. Quit your whining and get busy with the understanding of it all. Your, I wonder song is abusive towards your mom……and very hard hearted. There are lots of people out there that have had it a great deal worse then you or me.

By: Jane

Jane — Thu, 13 May 2010 14:58:07 +0000

Delicate family dysfunction requires a great deal of honest effort through councelling with a trained Proffessional. Her public degrading slamming of her mothers was extremely heartless, ABUSIVE, and she might, as well, have stabbed her mother instantly right through her heart with a razor sharp butcher knife, very close to the behavior of her Dad. Delicate family issues are private and need to be kept personal and private, and need to be carefully worked through with Proffessional help. Her mother has informed Kelly, I am hurting and have been for along time, but Kelly is not hearing re getting the message. Definetely staged performance to promote her musical career, playing on the emotions of others for personal gain, and teaching influencing the hurt persons to behave in the same re a great deal of the young and hurt are whining her song, I wonder. Personally I don’t like listening to that song for this reason. Just does not sit right with me at all. I have lived a life like Kelly and a life like he mother. Victimization is an illness, and not a chosen one. Her mother has been very I’ll and for sure has suffered deep depression, and this experience is emotionally crippling. Her mother did what was best for Kelly. I took my children with me and they have been deepy hurt by this experience. Kelly wanted to return to her Grandparents and my expericed guess is that it was the better deal financially and for Kellys physical comfort. My personal experiences have been far worse then kellys, and as sure as I am sitting here, there are men and women out there that have experienced far worse then I have. I foregive my parents for what they did to hurt me and my father died at 54 never taking responsibility for being abusive and he never changed, but, the important thing on my part is, that I did try to work the relationship through with him, and with a mother that never beleived me or protected from the abuse to this day. She is now in a nursing home and I am not able to visit with her because the continued emtional abuse, she just could not bring herself to believe that the man she had married was ill and my mother was very I’ll to……..the victim and the abuser. Is any of this my fault……no. Kelly’s mother did the very best by her. There was no angel or knight in shining armour for me or kellys mother and singing talent to bring us fame and fortune…….so that we could manage a great deal better finacially…….just hard honest day to day work. I foregive my parents for what they put me through and I understand they both suffered from an illness……… And I am sure that if my father could have replaced his brain with a healthy one…..he would have, and the same for my mother. Understanding can take you to empathy and then on in to the world of true healthy foregiveness……..and doing yourself a big favour of accepting something that you had no control over and you just can’t change the circumstances; however, you can set limits with these types of people in your life, and work through the difficulties, only when both parties are soiling. Kelly, your mother has reached the position of wellness and can work a relationship through with you, I would give anything to have my mother or father admit they were ill and I now understand why, and let’s work through this. Kelly you are very much influenced by your grandparents, against your mom, because of your dad, and your dad is a sick person. He is not ever going to get better but will over time be sicker. I question your grandparents, and you Kelly have set yourself up as a victim on stage and with your constant explaining your victimizing stories of your mom and dad and needing Xanax. The relationship with your mother is possible right now but you have to do the work.

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By: John Burke

John Burke — Mon, 18 May 2009 10:59:47 +0000

I watched the video of Kellie and her “I wonder” song for the first time tonight on CMT.com. I loved it and I have always loved her since seeing her on American Idol. As far as the emotion coming forth at the same time in the song more than once, that seems very possible. I’ve watched the same tear-jerker movie more than once and emotion would well up in me at the exact point in the movie as it did the previous time watching it. I don’t think she is fake, I think she is real and a very beautiful person. I hope she continues to be very successful.

By: Steve

Steve — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 08:31:50 +0000

Until you have been hurt to the core by someone else you will never know how deep the pain penetrates your soul. The song spoke to me because I know she feels the same feelings I have gone through.

By: renae

renae — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 14:15:47 +0000

how dare you people say such terrible things about her.you should all be ashamed of yourselves.i truely can understand what she is going through.does anyone out there know that her mother only recently tried to contact kellie? and maybe, just maybe, that is what might have brought this on? also kellie has been suffering from depression.with both of those things going on at the same time,plus the excitement of winning an award,my goodness,it`s a wonder she even sang at all.what an emotional night for her!it is pretty obvious,her little brother eric is very proud of his big sister.and who are we to judge!!!!!! my hat`s off to you,kellie!!!you will be in my prayers.

By: gregg

gregg — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 07:02:29 +0000

How do you know what she feels? Unless she’s told you personally that it’s just an act, you’re a cruel and heartless person to question the pain she feels from being abandoned.

By: merubeth

merubeth — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 08:14:30 +0000

I think Kelly is one of the best singers and who cares abouy the tears if your parents left you I think you would shed a few tO I still cry when I hear this song please give her a break she beautiful,talented, and has had a terrible life she needs all the suppoty she can get

By: Aaron E. King

Aaron E. King — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:10:06 +0000

I saw Kellie in concert on 7-11-08,and it was the most unprofessional performance I have ever been to. Her opening act was Rick Huckaby who played for 45 minutes. One hour and seventeen minutes later, Kelli finally made it to the stage, leaving her fans angry for staring for over an hour at an empty stage. Shame on you, Kelli.

By: L

Fri, 06 Jun 2008 13:31:07 +0000

My only thought is how can you not forgive your Mom but go all mush over the father that beat her?